I just need advice. someone help me?

my advice, start over, don't talk bad about anyone, don't feed into the gossip and the peer pressure to make fun of others. just ignore it, and anyone who tries to make you do so isn't a true friend. and don't give up on the four girls you hang out with now, you will be closer friends with them then you would be if you had forty. just remember you are entering your teen years (i am uming by the bat/bar mitzvahs comment), everyone has to go through them, and they are not so pleasant (mine definitely weren't). so just keep your head up and as hard as it may seem to believe, trust me when i say time flies by.